Laughing is a sign of happiness but if you see someone with a smiling face it does not mean there is absence of sorrow but it means there is ability to deal with it, with God. Do don’t show you sadness in public, keep smiling. Only God knows what’s troubles you deep inside your heart. Showing a sad face does not solve a problem but making the devil happy seeing you with a sad face his goal would be achieved. So keep the smiling face and confuse the devil.
What ever you do, where ever you go, what ever you want. PUT GOD FIRST
by Wadzanai Mukurutangwa.(Makaya¬ Chiweshe)
Obedience to God is the answer to all your problems, this is just a reminder because we seem to forget why we labour and suffer, and worry about what we are to shall eat and wear. Lets see how it all began, when God punished the disobedience from good to bad. Remember God had everything in place and well planned , no hard labour, no pain, no sorrow, no fear but peace and love. So when God created Adam in his image to fill the earth with people and multiply and have dominion over the fish of the sea, birds of the air and over every living thing that moves on earth and he gave us every herb and trees that yields seeds, and every green herb and every tree of garden of Eden shall be food. When all these were given to us UNDER OUR AUTHORITY, there was only one thing that God did not permit, to eat or touch the only tree in the middle of the garden of Eden , the tree of knowledge of GOOD AND EVIL, if eaten YOU DIE. Àdam used to live happily NAKED before the helper was created and after the helper was created NAKED. They became husband and wife and they were not ASHAMED, until they eat the forbidden tree of the garden of Eden, that was the mistake they did, that’s when they knew they were NAKED. They covered themselves with leaves as they discovered, when God looked for them and could not find them ,they hid as they could not face God as they were naked. God called them again and they answered’ they were naked ‘ and that the serpent told them. So God cursed it, that it shall eat dust and there will be hatred between Adam, Eve and the serpent. Listen to this, all 3 were punished with EVE God cursed that her sorrow and conception will multiply and feel pain on birth and her desire shall be for her husband and he shall rule over her. With ADAM God cursed the ground in toil he shall eat of it, in the sweat of his face shall eat bread till he turn to the ground and shall die, for dust you are and to dust you shall return. Genesis 1:27-30 and 3:1-10 , 16-19.
Whosoever listens to the word but does not put it into practice is like a man who looks at a mirror and sees himself as he is when he goes away he forgets what he looks like. James 1:23
Keep your lives free from the love of money be satisfied with what you have he will never leave you or abandon you. Hebrews 13:5 — by Wadzanai Mukurutangwa.(Makaya¬Chiweshe).
Do not believe all who claim to have the Spirit, but test them to find out if the spirit they have comes from God. For many false prophets have gone out everywhere. This is how you will be able to know whether it is God’s Spirit, anyone who acknowledges that Jesus Christ came as a human being, has the Spirit who comes from God. But anyone who denies this about Jesus does not have the Spirit from God. The Spirit that he has is from the Enemy of Christ you heard that it would come and now it is here in the world already.
1 John 4:1-3
You need to always admire each other on a daily basis and give good comments all the times when ever necessary, do not criticise each other no matter what, even in public show love and respect. Have diplomacy on what ever you say to your spouse, dont give commands, in marriage you need to make a suggestion to a question and give an opinions to an answer. You make a good wife one could ever want. As a wife make sure you are the first to make a comment on his dressing and his looks …and an additional suggestion on how he should match his colours before he goes out of the house. Don’t let anyone give comments before you, just appreciate him being your husband and make the best out of him not the worst make him feel wanted and loved. Always do good to make him appreciate you as a wife. Make less complaints, avoid quarrels and fights even if you know he is wrong simple say am sorry, it makes a difference and calms him down back to his senses. All this should start with you the wife he will follow your footsteps, and do the same. Don’t give him a chance to complain about you before you correct your mistakes. if they are any misunderstanding you will find that friends, colleagues, relatives and neighbours happens to be the ones to know, they can build, damage or destroy your marriage. Be careful what you do in the eyes of those who hate your relationship. It pays to be honest and be a loving wife who wants the best for your husband. Next time he will ask you for a suggestion on what ever he wants to do even if he discuss anything with friends he will still need your advise, decision and approval from you first as his wife, when that happens dont get too excited for the honour given, as you have build the trust in him, he knows you have positive and honest ideas not negative ones, as what comes out of your mouth builds not destroys and releases his stress and pressure and he will depend on you and believe in you whole heartedly knowing he will never go wrong .You will find the world saying a lot ‘Akadyiswa’ yet its simple love and honesty and respect. It pays to respect cause you earn dignity in your faith thou the world will say what they want ‘anotya mukadzi wakhe ‘yet its all about love, respect and honesty. You don’t even need any medicine or any african juju , but to respect and be loyal . Increase your dose of faith in your prayers if you find it not working and pray for him as well as your children. Always put God first in everything you do, it makes your marriage complete.: by Wadzanai Mukurutangwa ( Makaya¬Chiweshe)